Monthly Archives: September 2009


Listening to Navigate to Success 1

How well do you listen to yourself and others?  Do you fully focus on the other person when you are in a conversation and give them space to fully express themselves? Do you give yourself silence during your day to tune into your thoughts? In our fast-paced, multi-tasking world we tend to miss out on fully focused listening.  While on the phone we are sorting through e-mail, thinking about our tasks for the day, or doing a thousand other […]


Keeping Perspective for More Success with Less Stress 2

Last week I wrote about having strong commitment and letting go of our attachment to the outcome.  Having a strong commitment can become stressful and serious, especially if the deadline is coming more quickly than you anticipated, or other unplanned events take your time away from the work required.  I am working on a couple of deadlines right now and in the midst of this work my cell phone connector stopped working and subsequently my phone died as I […]


Navigating Success with Strong Commitment and No Attachment to the Outcome 3

Do you struggle with this like I do?  I sometimes get very attached to the outcome that I have visualized and if it does not materialize then I become frustrated and disappointed.  I remember when a friend kindly pointed out that I must let go of my attachment to the outcome.  What?  Let go of it?  But that is what I am so committed to and visualizing and it is helping drive me to be more successful.  Does this […]


Coaching for Effective Results with Positive Emotions 2

“Oh there is a word for that!” is a reaction I often have when I make a discovery about something that I intuitively sensed was true but had no way of describing it.  Because I had no known description, my sense of truth was accompanied by doubt.  It is interesting that when we have a word and even better some scientific evidence to back up how we are feeling then our doubt disappears and we are empowered to take […]